Friday, 20 January 2017

The Anticipation of an Event

 I've always been someone who likes to have things booked into the diary to give me that little spur on when I'm feeling a little blue. Part of the greatness of a particular event is the anticipation of it; planning it, packing for it, the journey; it all adds to the happiness of that event! When I know I have a trip booked, part of the happiness this even brings me is the anticipation of that event. Booking it makes me happy, and planning it makes me just as happy as the trip itself!

The lead up to Lindos, a week of food and sunshine, was a huge part of the fun!

I read a really good book last year. The type of book that you take ages to read just because you don't want it to end! I picked up "The Happiness Project" written by Gretchen Rubins at JFK before our flight back to the UK. I started reading it there and then, and it's been making my life that bit happier ever since!

Gretchen speaks about the happiness that the lead up to an event can bring people. I guess it's always been something that is true, but reading this book really defined it for me. It's making me appreciate the little things in the lead up to events so much more. I arrived home from work one day back in November, and my mum was burning a candle. It took me a little while to realise what the candle reminded me of, but slowly I knew that it was Christmas. Dan's birthday is on the 1st December so I would usually reject any idea of Christmas before that day out of respect for his birthday! But this year, I savoured that smell and it got me that little bit excited for Christmas - I was embracing the happiness that the lead up to Christmas brings me and so many others!

When I first started to really consider this concept, I immediately felt guilty for comparing the lead up to a trip to as amazing as the event itself. My first thoughts were that the event should be so good that it would outshine anything else. Gretchen made me realise that it is absolutely fine to appreciate the lead up to the event and to enjoy it just as much as the event itself. If we all took a little more happiness from the excitement of things we are looking forward to, I reckon that there would be a lot more happiness to go around.

Here's to enjoying the anticipation of the event just as much as the event itself. Personally, I know that this will bring a whole new heap of happiness to my life.

Do you get just as excited about the lead up to an event as you do for the event itself?


  1. I love your style of writing. Thank you so much for sharing this with us! Happy New Year to you and your family!! Dominica from London, xXx

  2. I agree so much! This time last year I quit my job to travel for four months and I look back on the year I spent planning it with just as much fondness as the actual trip itself. It was such an exciting time!


    1. I can imagine, the anticipation is definitely just as good as the trip too! The anticipation for your time away must have been unreal! xxx

  3. Beautifully written! I do agree with you. It's the little things :-)
    I really want to pick up and read that book now. Thanks for sharing this!

    1. It really is! I love looking forward to things; it makes life really exciting. I'd really recommend the book xx

  4. The build up to any event is always so exciting! I couldn't agree more with this post. I feel like I should give this post a read ! xxx

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    1. You definitely should, I will lent it to you - it's great! xxx


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